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Home arrow Links arrow Blog arrow Beware of so-called friends
Beware of so-called friends Print E-mail
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Written by Aunt Grace Coleman   
Friday, 20 July 2007

It’s very important to know how to choose friends. The quality of your life depends on the choices you make.

A good friend will never want to know or ask about all of your business because they know you have enough confidence in them to share some parts of your life when you are ready.

In life we all need good friends; those who will not talk about us behind our backs. With good friends you can depend on each other when you need support. With good friends you can give and expect honest and utmost respect and deep concern.

The friendly relationship begins to grow with time, and then each other becomes a member of each other’s family, a sister and brother. This is truly a rewarding friendship.

My mother was not a perfect person but she never lost a friend. She always said that good friends are better than pocket money and that is true. Sometimes we get so sick we can’t even spend our money on ourselves. This is why it is necessary for me to define the difference between a good friend and a bad friend.

A dangerous friend is a chancy person; manipulative and very nosey. They are not embarrassed to ask about your private business. And if you don’t tell them, they show a nasty attitude. They will ask you something about a person you know, and then they’ll go to that same person and ask them the same question they had asked you. Then they get the wrong answer in a nice way because the person is not used to nosey friends. They will then come back and tell you the person said no, when you had said yes.

Now this is one of the worst kinds of manipulations. What they try to do is make you feel less than you really are or to make you feel like a liar. You will find this dark attitude in some educated people who think they know everything, and who are full of themselves.

In a conversation among friends they will always try to argue with you by trying to bring you down in any way they can. Friends like these you don’t need. Terminate the friendship. These kinds of persons are no body’s friends.

My advice to you is to maintain your grace in everything you do in life. Do good. Be the best you can be. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Never try to bring down the progress of other people, especially if you have children.

Last Updated ( Monday, 06 July 2009 )
 
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